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"Make-Up Parenting Time Policy"

Monroe County, Michigan — Because of Family division of the Monroe County Circuit Court believes that it is important for a child to have a good relationship with both parents, the court is adopting a Make-Up Visitation Policy pursuant to MCL 552.642; MSA 25.164(42). Accordingly, the following policies and procedures will apply in your case unless the Court Orders otherwise:

 
1.  

Just as a non-custodial parent can create a child support arrearage by failing to pay his or her child support obligation, a custodial parent can create a parenting time arrearage by wrongfully denying the non-custodial parent his or her parenting time.

 
2.  

In the event that such an arrearage accrues, the party wrongfully denied parenting time will be permitted to have "make-up" time as soon as practicable for a like amount and type of time (i.e., the parent will receive weekend for weekend, weekday for weekday, holiday for holiday, and summer for summer parenting times).

 
3.   The Friend of the Court Office shall keep records of parenting time arrearages, provided the parties comply with the following procedure:
 
    a)   [sic] Within seven (7) days of the alleged wrongfully denied parenting time period, the parent with the complaint shall advise the Friend of the Court in writing of the date's) of the alleged wrongdoing.  Within five (5) working days, the Friend of the Court shall send to the other party a notice of the allegation an a request for response. The notice shall contain the following language in boldface type at least twelve (12) points in size:
 
       

FAILURE TO RESPOND IN 7 DAYS TO THE OFFICE OF THE FRIEND OF THE COURT SHALL BE CONSIDERED AS AN AGREEMENT THAT VISITATION WAS WRONGFULLY DENIED AND THAT OFFICE WILL ADJUST THE ACCOUNT OF VISITATION ARREARS ACCORDINGLY.

 
4.  

The calculation of time will be made by postmark. If a dispute exists about whether parenting time was incorrectly denied, the matter shall be scheduled for a referee hearing.

 
5.   Please note the following examples of unacceptable reasons for denying parenting time (emphasis added):
 
    a.  

The child(ren) had a minor illness.

    b.  

The child(ren) had to be somewhere else.

    c.  

The child(ren)  was not home.

    d.  

The non-custodial parent is behind in his or her child support obligation.

    e.  

The custodial parent did not want the parenting time to occur.

    f.  

The weather was bad.

    g.  

The child(ren) had no clothes to wear.

    h.  

The child(ren) refused to go.

    i.  

The non-custodial parent refused to comply with conditions set by the custodial parent.

 
6.   Please note the following examples of reasons for denying parenting time which generally are acceptable, subject to the discretion of the Court:
 
    a.  

The person seeking parenting time was impaired by drugs or alcohol at the time he or she  attempted to take the child(ren).

    b.  

The person seeking parenting time was more than one-half hour late and failed to make  other arrangements or notify the other parent in advance.

    c.  

The child(ren) had a serious illness.

    d.  

The person seeking parenting time failed to meet mutually agreeable preconditions, or  preconditions established or Ordered by the Court.

    e.  

The person seeking parenting time has established a pattern of failing to exercise his or her parenting time.

 

7.

 

It is the policy of the Family Division of the Monroe County Circuit Court that a person determined to have wrongfully denied parenting time  shall be subject to contempt proceedings, and may be required to pay fines as well as the other party's attorney fees. The person wrongfully denied parenting time may be awarded double time for the time missed.  The judges and referees shall exercise their discretion when making this determination.

 
8.  

The Friend of the Court Office shall keep accurate records of parenting time arrearages, and shall make adjustments when required.  Adjustments shall occur upon Order to the Court, recommendation of the Referee after the time for filing objections has passed, or notification in writing from the person exercising parenting time that make-up time has occurred.

 
9.  

The following terms and conditions are applicable to all parents unless the Court has Ordered otherwise:

 
    a.  

Each parent shall keep the Friend of the Court and the other parent advised as to his or her  actual residence address, mailing address, and home and work telephone numbers.  In the event an address or phone number should change, notification will be made to the Friend of the Court and the other parent immediately.

    b.  

Should either parent require child care for twenty-four hours or longer when the child is in his or her care, the other parent shall have the option to provide such care.

    c.  

Neither parent shall say or do anything in the presence or hearing of the child(ren) that may diminish the child(ren)'s love or affection for the other parent, and shall not allow  others to do so.  Neither parent shall make disparaging remarks about the other parent  to the child(ren) or anyone who would communicate those remarks to the child(ren), and shall not allow others to make such remarks.

    d.  

All marital, parenting time, court related, and financial communications between the parents shall occur at a time when the child(ren) is/are not present or within hearing  range.  These matters will not be raised during exchange of the child(ren), or during telephone visits.

    e.  

Each parent shall inform the other of school, sport, and other special activities as soon as possible and shall assist in the child(ren)'s attendance at such events. Neither parent shall schedule activities during the other parent's parenting time without that parent's agreement.

    f.   Scheduling changes require twenty-four (24) hours of notice, and the parent requesting  the change is responsible for the costs and inconveniences associated  with the change.
 
10.  

Unless the Court Orders otherwise, the parties shall adopt the Monroe County Friend of  the Court Holiday Schedule which provides for holiday parenting time. 

 

Information on this page has been extensively quoted from the Monroe County website which is "public domain." Updated on divorcePeers.com November 21, 2002.

 

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