Advice from the book
Games Divorced People Play
"Successful After Divorce relationships consist of four basic elements:
2. Financial Commitment,
3. Parental Commitment, and
4. Minimal Personal Contact.
"Courtesy means treating your ex as you would like to be treated. Cut
the barbs, attacks, put downs and getting back ats.
"...the greater the contact the higher the probability for hassle.
Positive interaction hinges on the divorced couple being emotionally
unhooked and available for honest, game free transactions."