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44th Circuit Court - Livingston County, MI
The following information has been
quoted from the Livingston County website which is "public
domain." Updated on divorcePeers.com November 24, 2002.
"Children love both parents and most want
their parents to be together. When parents do not live together,
children and parents alike may experience anxiety which may cause
anger, sadness and sorrow. Family structure and relationships are
different, including the relationship between both parents an d the
children, especially when changes involve different residences and a
loss of family traditions. It is a very difficult time for everyone,
which may worsen when parents do or say negative things to each
other. Although all children when going through the divorce process
will feel hurt and sadness, the parents, by cooperating together,
can minimize the harm their children will suffer.
"Parents can help by establishing or
maintaining children’s regular routines, encouraging frequent and
regular contact between children and both parents, and by being
supportive of the other parent’s involvement in the children’s day
to day life through participation in school and other activities,
and exchanging information regarding the children’s well-being.
"While the husband-wife or significant
other relationship may end, the responsibility to be co-parents
continues forever. Though your legal relationship may end when your
children become adults, your relationship as parents continues
indefinitely. Your children will always want you both to be part of
t heir lives, to attend high school or college graduation, to be at
their weddings, the birth of their children, and other major life
events. They will want to be able to proudly say that despite what
mom or day may have felt toward one another, they always treated
each other with courtesy and respect and never put us (the children)
in the middle of their dispute.
"Family law matters are difficult and
painful. When a family matter arises, the Family Division of the
Circuit Court has the responsibility to assist you to resolve the
concerns which affect your family. The Family Division and Friend of
the Court are aware of the many emotions which complicate the legal
decisions surrounding you and your children." |